Unlike other anal sprays or gels that can numb the sphincter and lead to tearing, our herbal gel causes no aesthetic effects. The anal sphincter becomes relaxed and therefore penetration becomes more comfortable. Intimate Earths DARING and rsquos unique formula contains a certified organic extract blend with the natural potency of clove, goji berry and aloe. Intimate Earths natural anal relaxing gel does not contain the synthetic compound benzocaine. DARING works quickly and is easy to apply.